Three Deaths
I heard a phrase earlier this week, It was struck me hard.
The Metaphorical Three Deaths
The First Death: The physical death of a person's body, when their heart stops beating and they are no longer alive.
The Second Death: The physical burial of the body.
The Third Death: The symbolic death that occurs when a person's name is spoken for the last time, a concept that suggests a life is not fully over until the last person who remembers it has passed on.
Why this caught my eye, is that I keep a minimum of two days a year for remembrance of my Mother, Grandmother and Grandfather. I take the vacation day off from work, go to Mass and put flowers on their crypts. I also, I will take a half day on All Souls Day for Mass.
These three were there for me even when, at times, I was a little shit. I was there for all three of their first and second deaths. As it stands, their third death will not happen while I am alive.
I think it is important, to remember those who came before. Honor them. They may not make it into the history books. They will cried over like some celebrity will be. They are still important.